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STRONGER IN THE DIFFICULT PLACES

Dr. Zoe, a licensed psychotherapist and relationship coach walks with you on your journey through fixing your difficult relationships, including that sometimes difficult one with yourself. Here, she offers a space where you can look at yourself and your relationship through a lens of psychology, faith and a dash of her own kind of feminism. Stronger in the broken places podcasts hosts guest from all over the world, from celebrity tv therapists to everyday women, authors and scientists, offering therapeutic tips, encouragement, camaraderie and support, helping women stay strong and transform difficult relationships. We’re not fixing them, we’re fixing you and that changes everything!

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When God Won’t Fix It | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

When God Won’t Fix It | Dr. Zoe Shaw

  Sometimes you have something so big and so difficult in your life that only God can fix. But sometimes, God just doesn’t fix it and that can mess us up psychologically. We create negative self-talk around it that is...

When Life Changes | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

When Life Changes | Dr. Zoe Shaw

  Life changes can resemble the slow rise of an ocean wave, but sometimes they feel more like hitting a brick wall. Sometimes we embrace it. Often, we don’t. Either way, it’s inevitable. For me, right now is a season...

The Line Between Selfish and Selfless | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

The Line Between Selfish and Selfless | Dr. Zoe Shaw

 Do you ever struggle with feeling like your self-care is really an excuse to be selfish? Do you have mom, wife or friend guilt when you aren’t being completely selfless? Women agonize so much over how their decisions are...

How A Strong Woman Deals With Past Hurt | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

How A Strong Woman Deals With Past Hurt | Dr. Zoe Shaw

This episode was fueled by two questions I received recently from podcast listeners that were very similar. I realized that if two different women were reaching out to me about the same topic, other people likely have similar questions. Sometimes...

Strong Women and Co-Dependency | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Strong Women and Co-Dependency | Dr. Zoe Shaw

Did you know that "taking-care-of-it-all-ism" is a sign of co-dependence? You're probably telling yourself you do it all because you do it best, but it might really be more about your need to feel needed. Today I'm holding up a...

The Courage to Try | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

The Courage to Try | Dr. Zoe Shaw

This episode is dedicated to Bethany Rutledge. Bethany was the author of Courage to Tri, a USAT-certified coach, a mama of twin boys, and a triathlete. I recently finished reading her book and both it and her story so encouraging....

Are You Acting like the Leader That You Are? | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Are You Acting like the Leader That You Are? | Dr. Zoe Shaw

I recently realized I think of myself as a boss, an entrepreneur, and a mom, but I never think of myself as a leader and I’m guessing you don’t either. But you are! It’s important for every woman to see...

Write to Influence | Carla D. Bass-image

Write to Influence | Carla D. Bass

Did you know that you every bit of writing you do- email, text, twitter, etc., is a reflection of you? Carla D. Bass, author of Write to Influence, gives us some tips and quick techniques that can improve our writing...

How a Strong Woman Supports Her Man | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

How a Strong Woman Supports Her Man | Dr. Zoe Shaw

I really like the title of this episode, but I know not everyone else will. I know this because I’ve received some criticism in the past saying that my podcast is anti-feminist, but I’m not anti-anything except hate. While I...

Trusting Your 6th Sense | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Trusting Your 6th Sense | Dr. Zoe Shaw

We all have a history and, in that history, we’ve made mistakes and been judged by ourselves and others. It’s not surprising that we can sometimes be overly critical of ourselves and afraid we’ll make the wrong choice again. But,...

How to Know If You’re the Difficult One and What to Do About It | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

How to Know If You’re the Difficult One and What to Do About It | Dr. Zoe Shaw

We can talk about dealing with difficult people all day, but what if you’re the difficult one? To be honest, everyone is the difficult one at some point or another and sometimes even in certain relationships and not others, but...

When You Still Hate Your Ex and It’s Been Years | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

When You Still Hate Your Ex and It’s Been Years | Dr. Zoe Shaw

We’ve all been there. It’s been months, years, or even decades and we find ourselves still hating our ex. How can we get past these feelings and finally move on? In this episode, I explore this topic by providing a...

The Vows All Strong Women Should Take | Dr. Michelle R. Hannah-image

The Vows All Strong Women Should Take | Dr. Michelle R. Hannah

Dr. Michelle R. Hannah is an author, motivational speaker, a cancer survivor, and a relationship coach. In this episode, we discuss how a recent stroke forced Dr. Michelle to redefine what it means to be a superwoman, why she wished...

Courage and the Strong Woman | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Courage and the Strong Woman | Dr. Zoe Shaw

Anything you know you’re destined to do in this world takes courage. We need courage to do the things we were put on this Earth to do. In this episode, we talk about courage and the strong woman; including what...

Why Women Go Crazy in Their 40’s and Why It’s Okay | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Why Women Go Crazy in Their 40’s and Why It’s Okay | Dr. Zoe Shaw

I admit it … I went a little crazy the year I turned forty. It wasn’t an immediate shift, but it was a significant one. I also see this same pattern with many of my patients. So, what is it...

The Fastest Way to Your Best Self | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

The Fastest Way to Your Best Self | Dr. Zoe Shaw

I’m not really a fan of the term “best self” and I feel like we’re all usually striving to be our best selves but, for the purpose of today’s episode, it really just means that person that you know deep...

20 Things Strong Women Do | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

20 Things Strong Women Do | Dr. Zoe Shaw

I know from my years of working as a therapist, that many women are not strong and sometimes we lie to ourselves that there is strength in our sacrifice, but sometimes that’s an excuse to keep doing the easy thing....

Are You Afraid of Your Feelings? | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Are You Afraid of Your Feelings? | Dr. Zoe Shaw

I’ve been a practicing psychotherapist for 18-19 years now and one of the biggest issues that my clients present in therapy is a fear of their feelings. They don’t realize they have this fear, but they do and you might...

Why Feeling off Balance Is Okay | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Why Feeling off Balance Is Okay | Dr. Zoe Shaw

Do you ever just feel a little off balance? Do you ever feel like that elusive work-life or mama-woman balance isn’t possible for you? Well, it’s time to embrace the chaos and that’s exactly what I’m talking about today. In...

Strong Women Give Ultimatums | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Strong Women Give Ultimatums | Dr. Zoe Shaw

Ultimatums have a bad reputation and when I started thinking about this topic, I googled it as I always do as part of my prep for the episode. I was shocked to read article after article about how much damage...

Are Dreamers Losers? | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Are Dreamers Losers? | Dr. Zoe Shaw

Shondra Rhymes started out her 2014 Convocation Speech to Dartmouth by saying, “Dreams are for losers.” I loved that speech and still find myself inspired by it, so I wanted to talk about it in today’s episode. However, I want...

The Power of an Unmade Decision | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

The Power of an Unmade Decision | Dr. Zoe Shaw

We all have decisions we have to make all the time and there is power in the unmade decisions due to the amount of stress they cause. In this episode, I’m not going to help you finally make a decision....

The Gifts in Your Dark Place | Melissa Maimone-image

The Gifts in Your Dark Place | Melissa Maimone

Melissa Maimone is the author of The Radiant Midnight: Depression, Grace, and the Gifts of a Dark Place and Gathering Dandelions: Meditations and Musings on Faith, Fracture, and Beauty Mistaken for a Weed. In this episode, Melissa talks about her...

How Are You Holding Yourself Back? | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

How Are You Holding Yourself Back? | Dr. Zoe Shaw

What if the words you speak to yourself are so offensive that it makes you not want to cooperate with your own self? If you are finding that you are stuck and not accomplishing something you want to in your...

Why Her? How to Stay in Your Lane Instead of Looking at Hers | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Why Her? How to Stay in Your Lane Instead of Looking at Hers | Dr. Zoe Shaw

Comparison compromises your soul. We all do it. It’s way too easy to swipe your finger on your cell and find thousands of images to compare yourself to. In this episode, I talk about the negative impacts of focusing too...

8 Tips to Boost Your Confidence | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

8 Tips to Boost Your Confidence | Dr. Zoe Shaw

I recently issued a poll in Instagram asking my followers what part of their lives they wanted to improve this year and the area of confidence and self-love was the very clear winner. Every woman takes a hit to her...

Is Your Busyness like a Drug? | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Is Your Busyness like a Drug? | Dr. Zoe Shaw

Busyness can certainly be useful in your life. We wear it as a badge of honor sometimes, but it can also be a shield of protection. It’s one of the few addictions that’s socially sanctioned and even encouraged. There’s no...

Baby Mama Drama – When You’re the Baby Mama | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Baby Mama Drama – When You’re the Baby Mama | Dr. Zoe Shaw

Last week’s episode was dedicated to how to handle “baby mama” drama when you’re not the mother of the children. This week, I’m flipping the script and talking about when you are the mother of the children and you’re dealing...

Baby Mama Drama – Dealing with the Mother of His Children | Dr. Zoe Shaw-image

Baby Mama Drama – Dealing with the Mother of His Children | Dr. Zoe Shaw

This week we’re talking about whether or not baby mama drama is hurting your relationship. I would like to preface this episode by saying that I actually hate the term “baby mama” because I feel it’s a derogatory term. It...

Your Facade is Showing | Debbie London-image

Your Facade is Showing | Debbie London

Debbie London is a self-publishing book consultant and author who’s on the show to talk about the façades women sometimes bring into their relationships and the impact they have on those relationships. In this episode, we discuss how God gave...

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